site information
This blog started:
27th March 2005
This blog will die:
UNKNOWN. (The day I die, perhaps?)
This layout is named: DBSK+cute brown skin= Cute DBSK skin! ♥
This blog was last updated: Click around and spot the "new changes"!
people have dropped by
currently reading around
For more info, please visit the "about " navigation, where I will tell you more about myself and my blog, too! (:
media player
disclaimer
a short disclaimer here where you mention your rules.
longer disclaimer will be put at "Terms".
Compatible now with Mozilla Firefox & Internet Explorer & Google Chrome
latest updates
MSN Messenger 7.0 hates me!
for the sake of updating
depressed
my goal in life
A sat wasted!
me, e bridesmaid!
《如果不是那只叫 Cute Cute 的鱼》
my worries
a day b4 phy open book test
第一篇 Blog
credits
Designer: BaBy -AnGeLiNa .
Basecodes: angelicgrace .
References: detonatedlove .
Host: blogspot and blogskins
Cursors: ego-box , angelic-rainbow and thechocogoodies .
Screenshot (Blue): chocoxbaby .
Materials are from here , here , here , here and here .
rewind
Bonjour!
This page contains :
Plugboard
Plugging Instructions (Must plug first):
Host ur button at PhotoBucket , then copy the direct link of your button that is 88px x 31px ! Then paste it under the 'Button URL' and type your blog's URL under 'Website URL' then press 'Click it!'! That's all!
Put a plugboard here from plugme.net .
Bonjour!
This page contains :
Plugboard
Plugging Instructions (Must plug first):
Host ur button at PhotoBucket , then copy the direct link of your button that is 88px x 31px ! Then paste it under the 'Button URL' and type your blog's URL under 'Website URL' then press 'Click it!'! That's all!
Put a plugboard here from plugme.net .
about me, myself and I.
Basic particulars
Name: Christy Chen
Age: 21
Gender: Female
Occupation: Student
Location: Singapore
Personality
Puts in my best for everything
Serious
Hobbies
Watch TV
Slack
Sleep
Loves
Dramas and variety shows esp. Korean ones
Korea
Lee Seung Gi
Dong Bang Shin Ki esp. Changmin and Yunho
Enjoys
Music
Learning Korean
Reading
Lame jokes
Helping others
Volunteering
Comedies
Likes
Sincere people
Peace
Balance
Indoors
Being in the limelight :P
Dislikes
Back-stabbers
Hypocrites
Cowards
Nonsense
Illogical People
Window Shopping
...Experience Reality... updated on 6th August 2009. ♥
Download all you want!
But do remember to say thanks!
Nothing (aka, no links) here is finalised yet! I'm still trying them out.
Here is the place where I'll store my dramas. Till the time I buy my external hard disk. First drama up, is "The Winter Melon Story", a Hong Kong drama.
Links for each episode are provided, and currently they are being uploaded to Megaupload. For instructions on how to download from Megaupload, refer to
"faq".
The Winter Melon Story
Episode 1: http://www.megaupload.com/?d=9145A7NV
Frequently Asked Questions.
Questions that you wanna broadcast here.
Your blogging handbook (:
Simple tutorial by you here.
Terms & Conditions.
Your long disclaimer here.
Display a beautiful "Mona Lisa".
Anything you want to display here. Banners, buttons...? Etc.
I've started writing, so why don't you start reading?
{ Saturday, June 18, 2005 } 10:34 PM
爱人的区别
我的标题:《爱人的区别》,想要表达的是爱上一个你认识,以及爱上一个你不认识的人,两者的区别。 意思: 认识:和你有沟通的人 不认识:没和你沟通的人 就先让我说说,爱上一个你不认识的人是怎么样的一个经历吧。如果你爱上了一个你不认识的人,你对他的了解,大多都只是打听过来的。你爱上他的理由,极有可能是肤浅的,例如:他的外表、身家,长处(如体育或艺术方面等等)。而且,最重要的是,你根本不了解他真正的人格,他的思想,他的观念,他的生活喜好及习惯等。你根本不能参与他生活的任何一个部分。你也无法正确地知道他的想法,因为你和他根本没沟通过。而且,你对他的任何判断都是你依照你个人的感觉,或是别人对他的影象而定的。你真的无法真正地认识他。 不过,好的地方是,你可以对他拥有任何美好的幻想;你可以开开心心地创造你和他的童话故事。无论他身边发生了什么事,你都不是第一个知道的人。这好处就在于,如果他有了新欢,他不会直接地告诉你。那么,你心理的创伤会减少很多。你也有可能会比较容易放开对他的感情,因为,你们从不曾有过在一起的时光。 如果你有勇气对他告白,如果是好的结局,非常恭喜你。不过,你们可能得花上一些些时间去了解对方,再来判断你是否想和他在一起。不过,有些人则认为,这样会使一段新恋情有趣味的方法。不过,世事并非全是美丽的。如果他拒绝了你,你会伤心,不过,如果他会向你解释理由,而且理由都是比较那么不伤心的,如他想专心于学业,而你又不去追究,那我想,你应该会活的快乐一点吧,因为你不会知道他拒绝你的真相。而且放开他以及疗伤的时间和过程都会减短和简单许多。 如果说,你爱上了一个你认识的人,他的生命里,都会有你。你可以很直接地了解他的为人,对他的了解,都是凭着实实在在的观察,应该不会错到哪里去。你爱上他的理由,虽然会包括肤浅的理由,但也会概括他的人格及为人,让你有更多的机会去喜欢他。因为你会与他沟通,你能意识到他的想法。你能真正地认识他。 因为你会和他有接触,那么,你对他的感情会与日俱增,和喜欢一个你不认识的人比起来,你会更快喜欢上他。你也因此有机会和他度过快乐的时光,让你在想念他时,可以拿出来回忆,品尝。你在他的心里会有个位子,他能意识到你的存在。这对许许多多暗恋着人的人,可说是多么的有意义呀! 但是,世事就是这样,一样东西,好处多,坏处自然也多。因为你是他的朋友,如果他有了欣赏的人了,他告诉你时,你的心会不痛吗?这比任何事物还能伤你的心,因为你的伤害是他亲口告诉你的。而你在听到了消息以后,你还得摆出一副若无其事的脸,对他微笑着,假装为他感到高兴;其实,你的心正在滴着血呢!如果,他在感情上遇到了麻烦,你还得鼓励他,为他加油,为他解决难题。这就好比双手奉上他给你的情敌!这一切的一切,都是你在为他付出,而你又不能让他知道任何你对他的好感。。。要一个人在伤心时戴上开心的面具,鼓励他人,是需要多少的勇气呢?这,恐怕,就只有经历过的人才能彻底地了解。 而且,我也刚提到了,你往往会对他下了很多的感情。一旦你发现他有了新欢后,你可能会忧郁的无法自拔。你可是这么的爱他,你能马上对他放下所有的感情吗?因为对他感情用深,他有新欢的消息就只会加剧你的创伤罢了。如果,你需要时间来疗伤,(疗伤的方法有很多,譬如在一段时间里别见他)但碍于你们是朋友,你能不见到他吗?而且,他也会在你面前提到与他另一半的时光-你能承受的了吗? 如果你告白了,成功了,那是再好不过了,因为你们俩都熟悉彼此。那如果失败了呢?你还好意思去面对他吗?我可不哦。。。
爱,就是那么的辛苦。但是,人都是有感情的动物,叫人如何有让自己避免伤痛呢?哎。。。
(以上上述观点,都是笔者有感而发的,代表着笔者个人的看法与想法。如有雷同,纯属巧合)
...Experience Reality...
chitter-chatter like monkeys
Any advice, anything to talk about? Don't seal it up. Just let it all out here! (:
All those other nice online folks.
H uimin @ http://shine-or-rain0211.blogspot.com
X inyi @ http://chub-piyo.blogspot.com
S eoh Thin @ http://bluetenet.spaces.live.com
S eoh Thin @ http://the-xt.blogspot.com
K ai Yun @ http://aquariusger.multiply.com
K ai Yun @ http://www.opendiary.com/entrylist.asp?authorcode=D159773
K ai Yun @ http://wonderlandisluv.blogspot.com
Z hao Han @ http://polalion.blogspot.com
J oseph @ http://lamegodzilla.blogspot.com
A sri @ http://shadowkhan.blogspot.com
G race Chua @ http://www.livejournal.com/users/eecarg
J ohn Sim @ http://www.livejournal.com/users/onemilliontones
E sther Chan @ http://notprosaic.multiply.com/journal
E sther Chan @ http://notprosaic.wordpress.com
S erene Tan @ http://s-barn.blogspot.com
S hining @ http://starbluez.blogspot.com
K ian Soon @ http://www.kianearth.blogspot.com
M ei Ting @ http://mydearestwish.blogspot.com
R uo Ying @ http://xskylerx.blogspot.com
D anis Liew @ http://bigmilk.blogspot.com
C hee Hoe @ http://forgivingspace.blogspot.com
K enneth Lim @ http://all-i-wanna-say.blogspot.com
A ngeline @ http://angelshe4eva.blogspot.com
A my Choo @ http://reve-toujours.blogspot.com
D eniselle @ http://deniselle.blogspot.com
X inyi @ http://chub-piyo.blogspot.com
X inyi @ http://chub-piyo.blogspot.com
Button Links
People whom you wanna link by buttons here.